SeekWealthy.com: Playing it Safe on Adult Dating Sites

Hackers and Scammers are on all internet sites, but they particularly target adult dating sites. Scammers know that horniness can overpower better judgment; sex sells. The promise of a casual tryst or readymade affair is enticing to most people, and shopping for a hookup online makes finding a partner twice as easy. Hookup site users are more likely to engage in unsafe internet practices; when you want a hookup you want it now. So rather than taking the slow and safe route, users send out their email or phone number without reservations.

Let's say you receive the following email on an adult dating site:

"Hi, I'm Alice. I'm really close to you and am looking for a nice man to have no strings sex with. I'm never on this site, so please email me at hottie4u2boff@spammer.com. I can't wait to share you with my girlfriends!"

It's possible that she's for real, but it's more likely that she's a spammer looking to collect email addresses. Why would anyone want your email address? Let's say that the spammer in question is someone who works on a scam farm. Scammer farms typically employ many people (often young boys) who get paid to create profiles of hot women, and work online all day sending out emails like the one above. You respond by emailing her as instructed, and the spam farm collects those emails and pays their employee a small amount for each email address. They collect as many email addresses as possible, and sell each one to many different spam lists. Now, your email address is being sold to multiple sources; the spam farm makes a lot of money, and you will never hear from hottie4u2boff again… but can expect a sudden influx in spam about replica watches and penis enlargement creams.

Social Networking and dating sites are also seeing a surge in hacked accounts these days. You sign up for a site, and hackers are lying in wait. Within a few days of joining, you get a message via IM that says: "Thanks for joining! As a free bonus, log in here for access to hot cam shows for gold and silver members only!"

It looks just like the rest of the site, and when you click on it, it asks for your email and to log in…again. You enter your information, and suddenly you're on a new, unrelated webcam page that asks you to join. And pay.

Why would they want your adult dating site account? Remember the message above that read "hey, I'm never on here, get me at hottie4u2boff@spammer.com?" Well, sites that allow free accounts limit the number of emails that free accounts can send out per day, and scammers are the reason. But your gold account can send out unlimited emails, so they can contact hundreds of other members by hijacking and utilizing your account. They take down your personal information, upload their hot scammer pics and fire away at other members until they're reported and shut down.

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Millionaires Dating Service Online: We talk to women who say sex is better with rich men(II).

GRADUATE Natalie Gohl only dates men who earn over 1,000,000 a year and thinks money can make a big difference to your sex life.

She says: he most incredible sex I ever had was in a suite in one of the poshest hotels in London's Park Lane.

He drank pink champagne and ate strawberries before retiring to the king-sized bed together.

Obviously that's better than being in bed with a guy in a grotty flat. I don't think money makes a man more knowledgable about how to please a woman between the sheets. I admit I've also had good sex with men who didn't have loads of money. But when I'm with a wealthy lover I'm not worried or stressed about my bank balance and that's why the sex is so much better.

Attraction is what improves your sex life — and I'm attracted to guys with cash.

These days Natalie rarely dates men who aren't worth a fortune. 'I never fake it. I'm not a prostitute' ... Natalie Gohl only dates rich men and wealthy singles.

She says: the first time I went on a date with a rich man it was like a different world and there was no going back. My friend had a wealthy boyfriend so she set me up with his friend. He went to Posh's favourite restaurant, Nobu, in Park Lane. He was a lot older than me so I was a bit shocked when I first saw him but I soon forgot about his age when he started ordering the most expensive things on the menu.

After dinner he collected his convertible sports car from his million flat near Sloane Square and we went to a private members' club where we drank champagne all night. I didn't fancy him but I quickly realised that unless I had a rich boyfriend I would never have a luxury lifestyle like that — so I decided to make it happen.

Natalie, from Whitechapel in East London, met men on websites for women wanting wealthy lovers and was quickly overwhelmed with requests for dates from rich guys. She says: I never feel exploited. I might date a lot of men with money but I have to be genuinely attracted to them to get involved romantically. That's why I just keep myself on the wealthy men or millionaires dating site just like wealthychats.com, seekwealthy.com, millionairecupid.com, SeekingMillionaire.com, etc.

I think women who fake it with rich men just to get presents and a nice life aren't much different to prostitutes — but I can't fake it. I've been on more than 50 dates with men who know that I'm only dating them because they have money. "But as well as being loaded, I want a man who is successful, ambitious and generous and prepared to treat me like a lady. I've been taken for dinner at The Ivy in London, had presents like a Louis Vuitton bag and expensive designer lingerie — and even been flown first class on holidays to Spain and New York.

And if a guy is willing to fly you across the world just to take you out to dinner and give you great gifts, of course it helps put you in the mood.

Great sex comes down to chemistry and having a connection with a man and I find wealth and knowledge a huge turn-on. At the moment I'm seeing a few different blokes who are all at least 20 years older than me. "Once I decide who I prefer, I would like to have a more serious relationship with one of them. Love hasn't come into it yet. Years ago, my ex-boyfriend had no money and always expected me to pay, so I have dated normal men in the past.

But now I'm used to being spoilt it would be impossible to go back to that. I'll never settle down with a poor man.

Millionaires Online Dating: We talk to women who say sex is better with rich men.

HOTEL attendant Lucy Durrans only dates men she finds on a website for women seeking seriously wealthy men — because she believes loaded blokes make the best lovers.

Lucy says: wealthy men are confident, successful and used to getting exactly what they want — so dating a rich man with an amazing lifestyle usually means you're going to have an amazing time in bed.

The wealthiest guy I've ever been out with was a millionaire. He treated me like a fairytale princess and I had the best sex of my life with him. On dates he would send a limo from London to Milton Keynes to pick me up.

Then his driver would take me to meet him at exclusive restaurants or bars in posh hotels like The Dorchester on Park Lane. He lived in a Mayfair flat worth millions and everything in his house was luxurious.

'The carpets were five inches thick and a TV even came out of the ceiling in the bathroom.

It was like an exciting fantasy world so of course it put me in the mood to have fantasy sex!?

Lucy insists she is not prostituting herself, merely ensuring a better life for herself and her four children, aged between nine and 19.

Online dating sites that explicitly deal with rich men means everyone knows where they stand and what they want from the relationship. I'm being upfront about what I want but at the end of the day it's still my choice who I date.

Yes, I do want a rich boyfriend but I still have to connect with him and I certainly won't sleep with just anyone.

If a man is sleazy or creepy, I ditch him. I want luxury for me and my kids but not at any price.

Upon my experience the richer the bloke, the better the sex will be and it's one of the reasons I won't go out with men with no money.

Use dating websites where the men have to tell you their income and I won't consider anyone who earns less than a 500k a year. That way I'm guaranteed a good time in and out of bed. So my choice is the wealthy men or millionaires dating site just like wealthychats.com, seekwealthy.com, millionairecupid.com, Millionairematch.com, etc.

I tried a 'normal' date recently but although the bloke was nice, he just took me to a pub for dinner and expected me to go Dutch on the bill.

I'm used to swanky restaurants and being paid for so I need a man who wants to pay for me to be attracted to him in any way. Even my kids ask me 'how much does he earn?' before I go on a date.

I've been given presents like a fur coat and diamond watches, been picked up in Aston Martins and drunk Cristal champagne. I'm not embarrassed.

These men have plenty of spare cash so they should buy me diamonds with it. I wouldn't say loaded blokes are better lovers but I do have more orgasms with them because it's easier to let yourself go.

For me being with a rich man is all about financial security and that's what makes the sex great.

I want to live in the lap of luxury and when I'm with a rich bloke I can forget about scrimping and saving and relax.

Men with cash are confident and sexy so when they've chosen to date me when they could have their pick from loads of other girls it's a huge turn on.

I do have standards but I'm not into looks and I don't mind if the men are overweight.

So long as they shower and dress well. The only men I can't enjoy sex with are ones with no money.?

Lucy, from Bletchley, Milton Keynes, who dates rich men she finds on seekwealthy.com , would like to find her soulmate, but he would need to have plenty of cash.

She says: I'm waiting for a millionaire before I get married because skint men just don't turn me on.

Being with a wealthy man gives me peace of mind and makes the sex mind-blowing. I've got nothing on my mind so I'm totally relaxed and that's what gives it the edge.?