Do Women Really want to meet Millionaires here?

Topic: This site is for looking for Millionaire Match, but as I read through the profiles, money doesn't seem to be all that important to many women. That is commendable, but then this just becomes another ordinary dating site. I joined because I do hope to meet a special woman, who appreciates, that while money cannot buy happiness, it can buy some luxuries and comforts. So, how does a man of some means, meet a woman who prefers men with money. I mean, if I prefer tall or short..Blondeor brunette, or some other preference, I think it would be great if a woman put "wealthy" high up on her list of "want in a man"!!!

R*****: It is never about the "money." I have my own! ;-) What it is about is "your" time, attention, affection and to be heard. It isn't about the gifts, the trips...the "things." It never is. Sure, diamonds and emeralds and trips to exotic places are nice. When I was younger I am pretty sure it was about the "things." ;-) Now, it's about my horses and clients being safe, it's about wanting to pick up the phone and call "him" to tell "him" about Roma winning her first blue ribbon, or my clients winning at a horseshow..it's about being to tell "him" what matters to me, he is supportive of what matters to me whether he cares about a horse or not...he listens. It's about wanting to tell him first. If you listen to the other person, you remember the entire conversation, if you are the one doing the talking, you remember nothing. Those who have alot of millions...something is missing in your life too. Money helps, it does not buy peoples' genuine and true feelings. You cannot buy someones' heart. There is either chemistry or there is not. Of course I would love to have someone in my life who would buy me that fabulous grand prix show jumper...but, I would prefer to "earn" that on my own, otherwise, the goal is met before the journey has begun...and the journey is the best part!

N*****: We dream and hope for an easier life, i am happy with i have achieved so far. Happiness comes from within, a feeling of being content and not having to conform or answer to someone. I suppose that i am just set in my ways. I am sure that there are some old fashioned gentlemen out there that hold values and respect for others .I am new to this site and will be waiting in anticipation for that person.

F*****: It's not question "want or not", but think if a very rich woman wants to meet a new man, you never know what the new friend is lookinf for!!! So you start in the same position, at least.

M*****: Some women are superficial and will try to form a relationship with a wealthy man for money alone. Personally I have never been in a relationship in which a man earns more than me, I have have either been the higher earner or within a 50/50 relationship. I love earning my own money but I'm happy to admit that it would be nice for a man to be a man, be the provider and take care of me. The women may not declare that they want a rich man on their profiles but the name of the website attracted us all for that reason :)

T*****: Yes, that is what this site is about, "So the title says, I thought." I think women do want men with money, I know coming from a relationship were things are fifty fifty it would be nice to have someone take care of me. I do like to make my own money, but thats because the way the world is today its mad us women independent. But not saying i would not like a man to take care of me one day.

B*****: I think many women are afraid they will seem to averistic if the say "money is important." However, "money may not buy happiness, but it will buy a more interesting level of misery" if misery is what you are into. For me, money alone will not make a relationship but "yes, a weathly, interesting man is what I am looking for and I am not the least bit shy about saying so. So are you wealthy and interesting? boomsu

S*****: This may be long in the waiting but it my personal belief that though on sites like these where women are supposedly looking for men with money I believe that many, like myself get categorized in the wrong. I believe that thought women do want men that have money but to the extent that occasionally women like to be surprised they want to be gifted and feel like they actually mean something. In the same sense sites like these too often allow women to overlook men like you, men that though they are not handing them everything on a silver platter but provide them the same chance at happiness as anyone else, if not more so. Maybe since there is still a sense of anonymity they should speak out, with honesty and sincerity...i think they would be noticed

M*****: Money can buy stuff that makes you happy. ;) That said, I am, I guess, in the majority in that I don't really care about money. In fact, I am just now trying hard to get over a guy who couldn't even afford his own gas to drive 10 miles to my house much less buy a pack of smokes. :-( Yet, I turn over and over at night; that didn't matter at all. This may have to do with the fact that I've never had to 'struggle' myself - which I am not proud of - but I've never wanted that and the reason I am on here is because I thought I'd try a site that makes members pay for the reason that maybe the members are more serious about having serious relationships. I could be 100% wrong; I have yet to find out.

V*****: You must be joking! Put "wealthy" high on my list of musts in a man. I don't relish the idea of being labled a "gold-digger". I'm of the opinion that money can make life funner as it allows you to do things you couldn't otherwise afford, but I'm looking for a man who can provide a deep, loving, and lasting relationship based on mutual respect and love of each other. Not on the all mighty dollar and what he can necessarily buy me.

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Millionaire Matchmaker: Find a Perfect Match this Christmas!

December, the most wonderful time of the year. The Christmas songs are playing everywhere and the holiday seasons are coming. Everyone has a smile with happiness. But if you are still single and alone, you may not feel the same happiness and holiday pleasure.

Are you still worrying about the following questions?
Where to spend the holidays to avoid lonely;
Why you are still single without finding a great match;
What you can say if your parents & relatives ask why you are not married;
...

It's the right time for you to make a search! The Internet, has already provided a great way for you to meet other wonderful singles who are looking for love just like you. So if you don't want to spend this Christmas alone and don't want to be asked lots of questions just like why you are still single, you'd better start to work and find someone.

Why you need to search online, not on an office/friends party? WorldWIT's survey showing that 1 in 5 women get involved with colleague at office party. While some of them receive long lasting relationships, most will not. It's even more worse that the broken relationship may cause a regret by one of both people in the future. If the relationship goes wrong or doesn't work as expectation, both people have to take the consequence of their mistakes. This isn't so easy if you are sharing your love stories with all your colleagues, co-workers.

So, a better choice would be finding someone outside the workplace. Without doubt, Internet dating should be your first choice as it provides a great number of dating services with millions of live singles who need love and relationships.

However, not all online dating sites are good and fruitful. You need to be wise and choose a good dating site before you join any online dating services. When conducting research what kind of services you will receive on the dating site, you should ask for references of people who have used the service before. You may simply create a very simple account and check their blogs, forums or talk with their existing members for your own judgment. Google is another way to help you find a good dating site. Their ranking system provides you with the best dating services on the first page of your search results. For example, if you want to find a successful lover with upscale background, you can google "millionaire singles", you can locate dateamillionaire.com, millionairecupid.com, wealthychats.com, millionairematch.com in the top 4 respectively at this moment. Once you have settled upon dating sites that interests you, consider trying at least two or three of them at a time to increase your chances of meeting appropriate singles.

Most of the good things in life are not free and the same rule is also effective in the online dating industry. Many dating sites offered free access to their members, but they do nothing to protect their members or help their members find possible matches. On the other hand, some dating services allows member to join free but require a subscription in order to use all of their features. Users just need to pay about $1 - $1.5 per day to enjoy such premium services. Such paying dating services paid more attention in researching the up-to-date online dating problems and tailor the sites with specific changes, settings, updates so that their members can find compatible mates with least efforts. And they also filter fake profiles or dishonest, abusive members to keep existing members serious and quality.

To get started for your successful dating journey, here are some simple tips which help you master online dating and find your perfect match:

I) Know who you are and what you are doing. Once you've decided to meet your life-time partner online, don't be shamed to show yourself real. You can try all your best to make yourself look good to get a great first impression, but you still need to return to the reality later. Just be real or be yourself brings little inconvenience for you later communication. Actually that's the best choice. It's better for you to meet the one who loves you because who you are, but who you will be or who you were. So, do not transfer the wrong information to your potential mate.

II) Be positive, patient, persistent. You can call them 3Ps. Online dating takes time and commitment. You need to be very patient in your search. Actually it's kind of boring to search profiles and read profiles from time to time. But you should remember that you are looking for the one who will spend life time with you, you will not be in hurry. At least you need to be responsible for yourself. Feel better now? Just go on your search until you meet the right guy.

III) Try to make yourself different. There are hundreds of millions of singles registered on many different dating sites. Many of them share similar profiles or even identical profiles. You job is to make yourself stand out from the crowd for receiving more attention. It's absolutely worthwhile for you to spend hours making up your profile. The 80/20 rule is also effective in online dating: 80% of the total profiles will be viewed by 20% members, while the left 20% profiles will be viewed by 80% members. If you want to make your profile one of the 20% profiles, spend some time and create a good one.

IV) Just be creative. All the published dating ideas, dating advice, dating tips mentioned by others just work for certain people, but for all. And we believe there's nobody can create such a powerful dating advice which works for all people. Circumstances are always changing, you need to adapt yourself to the changing world and find a way which works for yourself. When you meet new problems, think if over before you take any actions.

It's the time to call it an end here. Be sure to enjoy your dating journey and have lots of fun! Happy Christmas and here’s to a great, fun and love filled New Year!

Millionaire Dating: How to learn as much as you can about your blind date before meeting them?

Although a blind date is supposed to be your first meeting, don't let that stop you from protecting your own safety.

Always talk to your blind date in advance. Get a feel for what they are like. You may be able to tell just from talking to them on the phone if they are a crazy person, someone you are definitely not compatible with, or a gold digger.

Another useful tool is facebook. You can scope out their information without them knowing. By looking back at some of their wall posts you might be able to tell what kind of person they are.

If you think that the blind date is going to be a complete failure from your advanced knowledge then just think about canceling the date immediately because a bad blind date is something no one wants to experience.

How to leave millionaires wanting more

OK Ladies, you have now landed a first date with a new potential. How do you get a successful date and a follow-up for a second one? Follow these simple steps and you're a shoe-in for a second date.

1. When you meet, you have probably talked for some days or weeks I hope, so it will be appropriate to lean in for the "one cheek hug".

2. Yes, indeed this is a site to meet rich singles, but that does not mean it is OK to talk about money on a first or second date for that matter. Ask questions to get to know him, but nothing too personal, and avoid answering too personal questions on the first date. Leave him wanting more.

3. Smile! And keep eye contact to the point where it's almost awkward, and then break. It will make him think you're a bit mysterious without you having to be.

4. If you want this to be a long term relationship, do not wear too revealing clothes. Remember the golden rule: if you show shoulders or cleavage, keep your legs covered; if you show legs keep your chest covered.

5. And ladies, I know he might be a stud and you think he is perfect. But it takes a few dates to get to know someone, so under no circumstances are you to have sex on the first date! It will make him like you a lot then and there, but it will most likely not lead to a follow up date, unless he wants a booty call.

6. When you talk, make sure you do not cross your arms in front of your chest. It gives closed and reserved impression. And it's OK to touch him from time to time, when you laugh at his joke lean in a little and put your hand on his knee, arm or hand. Not in a sexual way but to let him know you notice him and appreciate him.

7. Use his name when you talk to him, not all the time, but a few times will make him understand that your attention is on him only. And by all means give compliments. Do not expect one back cause it will seem like you are saying it to get one back. And always mean what you say. Do not tell him his jacket looks amazing if it doesn't. Find something you really like, and give a compliment from the heart.

8. Unless he tells you he has children, do not start talk about children on the first date. This goes under "nothing too personal".

9. When he tells you something that happened to him, do not interrupt to tell him your similar story. Be a good listener.

10. Last but not least, when the date is over, a good night kiss is alright, but only if you really want the follow up, and if you are sure you are going to be able to tell him no, if he asks to come in with you. otherwise, give him a hug and tell him you had a great evening, and thank him for the dinner if he paid of course!

Now ladies, I have given you some do's and dont's. So have fun and land a millionaire. ;)

How to date a man with financial freedom

Ahh the male ego. If we, as women could truly understand the complexities of it, we could rule the world.

Men are interested initially by a physical attraction. Most of the time, this is in direct relation to something a man sees when the woman is looking at him.

If a woman is amazing to look at, of course he is going to check her out. Beyond that, if he sees something in her eyes (interest!) then his attraction for her is going through the proverbial roof.

Now we have two people that are interested in each other. In the woman's mind, all is good. He is decent, she's checked him out and made sure he is not married, an alcoholic or an ax murderer. So she presents herself as ready willing and able for a relationship, when in fact (digress with me momentarily~back to the male ego) what she should realize is that the guy needs to chase in order for him to think she is worth a relationship.

Huh? I know, but ladies,,,its the truth. Don't answer every time he calls...let him wonder where you are...

Be the first to "have to go" when you are on the phone. Think of these, not as games, but stratagies.

Men need to work to achieve something in order to believe that it is worthwhile having. If something comes to easy, in their minds, if you are too willing to jump into a relationship (emotional or sexual) with him, then you are the same with all other guys.

That makes him feel like you are not worth the effort.

DO NOT SLEEP WITH ANY MAN YOU HAVE A DESIRE TO SEE AGAIN UNTIL HE IS AT THE POINT THAT SLEEPING WITH YOU IS ALL HE CAN THINK ABOUT.

Then wait a few more days....