No matter how you do it, when you do it, you should put some thought into it. Yes, don't just go bounding off on a date. Take a few minutes to think about what lays ahead and have some sort of a plan.
To help you with your quest to find "the one," below is a list of popular tips to have a positive dating experience, or at least help you on your way. After all, you can't be held responsible for the other person.
. Keep an open mind. Don't have a strident, unattainable (do some self-examination) shopping list. After all, you can't coach chemistry.
. Psych yourself up for dating. Look forward to the experience and commit to giving it a real go, but don't take it too seriously. That often ends up looking like desperation and will make the occasional letdowns a lot worse.
. Decide if you have specific dating goals. Ask yourself why it is you are dating. Do you just want to get out more or do you see yourself married in the near future?
. Even if the sparks don't fly, don't be discouraged. You just might make a great new friend who could potentially introduce you to "the one."
. Don't give away the farm too early. This means sexually and emotionally.
. Physically, pull yourself together. Get in shape, do some grooming and styling. Looking and feeling better will help boost your confidence.
. Think positively and hang out with those who think positively. Don't get dating advice from the buddy who is going through a bitter divorce.
. Get out and do things. It's hard to date - well, real people anyway - when you never leave the house.
. Review the dating you're doing. Are you happy? Do you need a break?
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