Ahh the male ego. If we, as women could truly understand the complexities of it, we could rule the world.
Men are interested initially by a physical attraction. Most of the time, this is in direct relation to something a man sees when the woman is looking at him.
If a woman is amazing to look at, of course he is going to check her out. Beyond that, if he sees something in her eyes (interest!) then his attraction for her is going through the proverbial roof.
Now we have two people that are interested in each other. In the woman's mind, all is good. He is decent, she's checked him out and made sure he is not married, an alcoholic or an ax murderer. So she presents herself as ready willing and able for a relationship, when in fact (digress with me momentarily~back to the male ego) what she should realize is that the guy needs to chase in order for him to think she is worth a relationship.
Huh? I know, but ladies,,,its the truth. Don't answer every time he calls...let him wonder where you are...
Be the first to "have to go" when you are on the phone. Think of these, not as games, but stratagies.
Men need to work to achieve something in order to believe that it is worthwhile having. If something comes to easy, in their minds, if you are too willing to jump into a relationship (emotional or sexual) with him, then you are the same with all other guys.
That makes him feel like you are not worth the effort.
DO NOT SLEEP WITH ANY MAN YOU HAVE A DESIRE TO SEE AGAIN UNTIL HE IS AT THE POINT THAT SLEEPING WITH YOU IS ALL HE CAN THINK ABOUT.
Then wait a few more days....