She didn't respond to my thank you note on FB after we broke up, and I wrote about the good times and all and said "You WERE the only exception, and I still believe."
She told: Don't call me. Don't text me. Don't IM me.
Is she being serious about it and might take legal ramification if I message her again? She mentioned that she was a little upset about breaking up with me and thought about it for a few days and during the one month anniversary. I admit I was on a dating website while in the relationship and TALKED to others and never hung out with anyone. My parents didn't like the person and thought she was white trash, but I rebelled and loved the woman with all my heart, but in the end my own soul was broken, but not shattered into pieces and I plan on moving on.
She doesn't have a job or a vehicle and said I was suffocating her while talking to her 1 time per day on FB, no constant texts and calls.
Does she want someone who can buy things and drive her around all the time and USED me? As a respectful man with old fashioned values. I have no answer...
(WantsMillionaire.com) Millionaire Dating Counselor: You didn't describe her too much, except for the present story. So it's hard to say whether she's correct or not. There should be a big problem in your relationship: the objection of your parents. She has a clear sense of this and she can foresee the final result of the relationship if she can't be accepted by your parents. She knows your love on her, but will be make the choice against your parents in the final? It's a problem on her side.
You loved James Durbin, it's also what she should worry about. You can tell her that you are straight, but she may still be worried about whether you will turn to gay some day. Probably you didn't make this problem clear.
It's also a big mistake for you to put yourself on a dating site. If you love her, you should not chat with others on a dating site. Don't you think so? You can chat with anyone anywhere, but not on a dating site. In her eyes, you are looking for someone else and no longer interested in her.
As to the response from facebook, it's understandable if you put yourself in her shoes. Most likely, she loved you deeply in the past. After the breakup, she is into troubles. So she doesn't want to see your messages, calls, IMs. Give her some time for rest. You still have change if you are still into her and you get get an agreement from your parents.